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Early communication

Guidance and tips on the different ways children can communicate.

Introduction

All forms of communication are valid, and it’s important to recognise, respect, and support the unique ways each child connects with the world around them, if they do not use traditional speech.

 

Pre-verbal children are children who are learning to communicate before they can speak. They communicate in lots of ways to tell you what they want or need. Sometimes this might be in a quite a subtle way, like making the ‘b’ sound for bubbles.

 

Non-verbal children simply means that a child communicates in ways other than spoken language. It does not reflect a lack of intelligence, personality, or potential. Many non-verbal children express themselves richly through alternative methods such as gestures, facial expressions, sign language or communication devices. These diverse forms of communication are equally valid and meaningful. With the right support and understanding, non-verbal children can build strong relationships, make decisions, share emotions, and fully participate with their peers. It’s important to recognise and celebrate the many different ways children communicate, and to respect every individual’s unique voice—whether it is spoken or not.

So, when talking about children under 5, in many cases “pre-verbal” is probably a more useful term, but you might hear both phrases used to describe your child.

Parent/carers often ask:

Top tips and ideas

So how can you communicate with your child?

Attention and listening helps with communication. At first, your child may be easily distracted by other things they can see or hear. Gradually, they will learn to focus for a bit longer if it is something they find interesting. You can try some different ways to help your child listen and respond.

Things to try to help your child learn to listen:

Different ways your child may communicate with you:

You will come to recognise the different ways your child is communicating with you.

Makaton

The Makaton communication programme combines speech, signing, and symbols, specifically to help those with learning or communication difficulties. It is designed to support spoken language, to help children and adults to communicate with others around them.

Using signs can help children who have no speech, limited speech or whose speech is unclear. Children’s understanding often develops ahead of their speech, which can be very frustrating because they know what they want to say but struggle to say it. Using signs can help them with this and so helps with the frustration.

Useful videos and TV programmes

The benefits of using Makaton

In this video from CBeebies, parents of children who use Makaton explain how it has helped them communicate. And Makaton Tutor Kate Duggan explains how Makaton is beneficial for children of all ages and abilities.

Using Makaton

The BBC website has lots of helpful information about using Makaton.

Something Special

The BBC’s award-winning Something Special children’s programme features Mr Tumble, who uses Makaton signs, speech and symbols to help children learn how to communicate and develop their language skills in a fun way.

British Sign Language

British Sign Language is a sign language used in the UK and is used mainly by people who are deaf or have hearing impairments. This video shows 50 key signs for beginners.

Useful sources of information and support

Tips for parents
Makaton - Learning signs and symbols
British Sign Language (BSL)
BSL Little Signers Club – signs for babies
The difference in communication

Autistic children may have different communication styles and preferences to non-autistic children. The National Autistic Society explains more.

Jargon Buster

Here are some terms or abbreviations you might come across:

Preverbal

Refers to a child who is still developing spoken language and communicates primarily through nonverbal means like gestures, vocalizations, and facial expressions.

Nonverbal

Can refer to children and adults who have not developed spoken language or who have limited verbal ability, but they still communicate through other means like sign language, assistive communication devices, or other forms of nonverbal communication.

ASD/C

Autistic Spectrum Disorder / Condition.

Neurodiversity

A framework for understanding how people think, learn, and behave. Most people are neurotypical, meaning their brains function as expected by society. However, it’s estimated that around 1 in 7 people are neurodivergent. Neurodiversity covers a wide range of conditions, including dyslexia, dyspraxia, ADHD, and autism.

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